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Marriage is something of significance and a substantive essence. What is marriage all about? Many wonder and question. Yet a moment of impulse was what conspired many young couples who do not understand marriage to wed. There is the good and bad side of a marriage; who would want to be in the bad side of marriage? Let's define marriage, be it a blessing or a curse. Hence, the world of marriage will chance upon anyone at any time and any where.
Firstly, a promise between a couple? What does that dwell to you? A verbal phrase. Promises to me are meant to be broken. Thinking positively, a promise is not a want but a need. You find the need to promise; but it isn't what you had wanted. A want is something you pursue with all your might and sincerity to obtain it, but a need, apparently is something everyone will see as a must do. Hence, you will not give it a hundred percent. Wouldn't one place more emphasize on a want than a need? Personally i feel that a desire for something would be over a verbal comment that one will forget.
Secondly, a desire requires a committment. A committment is whereby one puts his heart into whatever he do. One's responsibility on what he pledge. Committment comes when one is deeply attracted to someone and pledge to stay by him or her. Committments will keep you at the right pace to go for what you want.
Thirdly, its the bond between couples that keeps the fire in them. A bond is not created or formed shabbily. It takes a long time and alot of trust, nonetheless pretty much patience. That bond is not easy to break, it will help married couples to brave the challenges and difficult passage. Many couples struggled to realise their identity and not ready to take on new responsibilities that awaits them. Most new couples need to adapt to life after marriage, and certainly the bond will help them fit in. However, there might be cases of quarrels under the same roof. Remedies to such cases is also the bond, to be understanding enough; lest mutual trust. A bond between a couple is very much like the bond we had with our parents, the transition from a child to a teenager and from a teenager to an adult, the process which they saw us develop.
Lastly, blissful marriages and broken marriages are crossroads of life. Love pulls us to the myriad of crossroads, leading couples to a blissful marriage or a broken marriage. The connection between two person would decide which route you will end up. A blissful marriage leads to bearing kids, mutual understanding and having a great time with in-laws. A broken marriage will disturb the children both mentally and physically, no doubt causing grieve to the other party.
In conclusion, marriage isn't a simple affair. Access the different ways to keep the relationship stable and ensure that you want it, not a need to.